UNDERSTAND THE PURPOSE

I can still remember that my parents were guiding me at times; I never felt irritation even if they say same advice more than 2 or three times. But now the children whatever the age easily getting irritated with their parents, relatives, teachers or friends. Those who advise young children felt that the advice is necessary for certain things, does it appropriate to younger one's. If the mistakes were not corrected by someone how they come to know which will give wrong answers or create an unnecessary problems. Youngsters thought that they want to know what will happen if they do so. As we experienced certain things in life, we know the results, so to avoid the young ones do not suffer, it becomes his duty to teach. Else if the parent or teachers keep quiet and just watch what is going to happen when the children behave out of control. Consequences may be worst. What makes them to think or decide wrong for certain dealings in their own life which ruins one's own life. It's a pathetic situation of parents dealing with young children these days. Most of the parents were put into the circumstances that they do not know what they should do.Christianbelievers keep praying for their children whether the prayers going to change the situation or not at least parents get relaxed about what they have done, if there is no other way they could find out. Moral stories in the Bible taught good for everyone, there is a popular story about "The Prodigal Son". The story of a son who was unwilling of advice,or disobidient readers of the story would think that their children also go through the worst situation in life, sometime he/she might realized their mistakes and come back to them with changing his mind. If young children come back with their good attitude is the expectation of parents. But in reality the stories are always not as we read and think. It would be beyond our imagine, worse than we saw either.



We are surrounded by the evil, 99% of evilism occupies the world, children and the youngsters are expected to capture by the snares of evil. Capturing the young child's mind and health is his one of the target. So that disobeying children, various defective health complicated children are under the evil's control. Surprised to know in young children and adult are suffering different types of leukemia, type-I diabetes, mental retardation and so on. How the melancholic can be prevailed, what are the root cost, the question would need to be answered. Everybody's life needs a purpose, if everyone was created for a purpose it has to be fulfilled. The situation becomes worsen is the alarm indicates that "it's critical, needs our complete attention". Comprehension is added ability to require overcoming the circumstances. As the Bible said King Solomon was asked by the God of his requirements, his requisition was pure perception of wisdom and knowledge. Love and Wisdom are Godly things which are available for everyone who seeks His presence. Only attainments promote solution in our gloomy miseries, Counselling for a new source of knowledge would be given to us. No point in being immersed in sorrow, we have to seek HIM to understand the purpose. HE will reveal what to do, accordingly we have to change our life.

TRIBUTE TO MY AMMA

                  22 ‎August ‎2013

LOVE; its existence is limited, those TRUE LOVE stories may not be popular. Assurance exchanged by the couple who married newly who will say that both of them in love. A few years later each one of them finds difficult to prolong the relationship. No one wants to compromise even a few things to pursue. There the question arise "How can I compromise?, How can I tolerate?, That is not my problem; How long I can keep silent" and so on. Has the love disappeared? If Love has been given priority in life hesitation will be at zero level. I have experienced The True Love in my life. I can proudly say that AM THE RICHEST. One who has everything except love are considered to be poor among the poor.

The first love in my life was from my mother which was enormous throughout my life. She compromised all her happiness for my sake. It was a very emotional long story, which I remember at every moment of my life. In fact, I would say day by day my love on her increases. Every day without her thought I never go to bed. Such a great woman she was. When she was counting her last days I asked her "Amma [mom] how I am going to live without you?; with whom can I talk so closely?" she said to me with tears and pains "Don't worry God will guide you more than myself". How wonderful days I had spent with all my life with her, Really am fortunate. 

    As she said after her God has become my friend; He is showering His wonderful mercy, abundant love for me keeping myself pampered. His guidance has no words to express. God knows being a poor and only child to my parents needed a lovable and caring parent. From my childhood till my marriage food, cloth and shelter were luxurious things. That was a tremendous story. My only dream was to become graduated, for the education I have struggled a lot to reach at my Bachelors. After marriage completed my Masters, the one who was feeling happier in her life to see me as an educated happily married woman was my AMMA [mom]. 

My father was a man of multi-talents, wise, my philosopher and guide. He prophesied many things in and around my life. He loved God with his whole hearted, most of his life time spent for prayers, and that was his only treasure. Sometimes I asked him that "your lip moves, is that you are talking to yourself?", He replied me politely, conversation with God.Those days my knowledge of prayers was less than the current level. As I know only before every meal and before bed at night. So his reply confused me and I was not able to understand. Later, God educated me at times when I seek Him. 

So my previous love for my mom and dad was first phase, second and the everlasting now am in LOVE with God, He bounds with his enduring mercy and love for me. As my mother said to me God is my Love, He is my guidance. Am not only thankful but also grateful to Him. Today is my mother's 12th anniversary, remembrance of her great soul writing this short tribute message. "Amma [Mom], we will meet again; I Love You". ‎22 ‎August ‎2013

OF LIFE

Me and my friend a little competition, which respects people attracted about, to understand that the three friends together for a checkup and a bag of rice, another free film and screening tools, and the third to God's grace, come to receive the free over the various maladies well like many other Tasks for God's blessings and help, the three different villages every day and they had taken things for free, give him told, I heard the crowd to come and free the left, the next time the same things at a much lower price, giving told, people meeting in the first half of at least the next few months later, citing several reasons, went to ask for assistance or financing. No one is ready to give.

It was one thing well, only slightly more affluent neighborhoods of the poor, even if freely available products were free, even those who can help when that is ready to help. The availability of the overall sense of people getting free without any hesitation, to obtain, as well as selfish place to return the favor. In another test, three people standing close together in most shopping is something terrible has happened impossible to know what the uproar of a fast crowd of people turned out for the incident.

Animals such as cattle, elephants, one has to go forward as one people are going to follow the crowd, or someone else is going to go off on an action is found also in many cases. Cap-educated businessman remembered the story of young monkeys. If money or jewelry somewhere else finds it in his hand after the goods' whose sin the object, it will be lost and sad that many people are worried by. Although the property to someone else in his joining hands we can see people in the exhilaration, jewelry or other belongings, take the money from somewhere to go and surrender to the police because of some of the media, news, cast light on shows such a rare thing.

Surrender to the police, getting back to the lost object that holds other objects of suspicion. What's on your property, it can take for free, why the human mind is satisfied, as well as losing his belongings are lost at the time, or whether we are achieving much suffering, why should we refuse to think. These are the most selfish and most people at random, or that there is no need to say I take it well, we know Home, in which we have any type?

In the temple courtyard detach and travel shoes also put there, such a shoe thief on foot wear if you want more than just a foot walk at least ameliorate the know, 'I do not get the job, did not earn enough, so the hunger, hungry,' says that during the next possession to steal to avoid the possible, even Is it wrong to go to die of hunger. Since the body has become used to living life to the business of selling luxury facilities would continue to go to the happy life, not to say that the name of the luxury life living conditions in the body than going for it before I die and let die Is not.

What is life, joy and gorgeous facilities that might be said, that life without a man, poor man, the only thing in life is to leave somehow getting the victory, success and failure in quitting by getting the money and glory aught is. Is not it can not achieve a people, living life on earth as a man drove for pleasure only.

MEMORIES ARE FOREVER

When I was girl I can understand things happened that is the years between adolescent and childhood; in my life poverty dominated extremely; only favorable things were to me that I am only one child to my parents. All most every festival and birthdays, I still remember nothing will be at home to enjoy; not even food to eat. There was no other sources except to walk on or pass on the tough situations.

Poverty during childhood is unbearable; it educate us to uniqueness; teach us philosophies of life. As the years passed; as we read in non-detail stories a wealthy and a handsome young man who born to turn my tears and sorrows of the terrible circumstances came into my life unexpectedly, married me as in dream, even today when I think back of my life, it was happened as a wonderful dream.

Some of my neighbors envied; some of them surprised, could not believed their eyes. I can say it was happened only because of my parents continuous prayer and their honesty, kindness, loving nature, generosity though they are in poverty. My schooling was in a government higher secondary school, Chennai, as I was intelligent in studies also interested in higher education, as my father had no enough fund, successful completion school I joined in a government arts college, in those days engineering studies were not as much as popular like now, after a tough long four years I had completed my graduation in B.A. Economics, it was peak days of starvation, I had to find out a job somehow to meet my family expenditures, my father's health become complicated.

During my college simultaneously I joined technical courses like type writing, shorthand, so as soon as completed graduation I joined one of the small private company, as I had no history of work experiences I got very low salary for 2 to 3 years. It was not sufficient, but had no other choices, as a young girl co-workers (male) and some of the higher authorities in the company where I got job abused me everyday. It was highly risk for me to work alone after office hours.

One fine day, still I remember it was Good Friday, afternoon we went to Church ( myself and my mom) during the prayer time, my heart was broken into pieces as I was kneel down, weeping continuously more than 45 minutes, I could not control myself, I never cried before so much, I felt that was not enough for me, still I wanted to cry loudly, but there were no place to cry loudly, after the prayer got over we came back home, my intuition said to me that some good changes going to happen, this incident happened in the month of March.

Month of April my Prince who was sent to me by the God Almighty, in the month of May my wedding got over with my God given Prince. My life completely changed, after marriage I asked permission to my husband that I wanted to study post graduation, I stopped working joined M.A. Public Administration, after 2 years successfully completed post graduation; till today my life is full of joy, it was given by God I trust. My 2 children are software engineers, God blessed them and my home abundantly.

My children never know about poverty, but I always tell about my days of poverty, I never regret those memories, because it taught me a lot, valuable experiences which I cannot learn out of anything, such a great experiences.

LOVE

Sometimes people talk about 'first love', I used to visualize the people whom I loved and the people loved me, but there are so many questions passes around in my mind at the same time, final results would be, exactly when, where and what for love started and ended will be unanswered; all the answers and questions sometime confuses, makes us difficult to find right answers for many questions arises in our thought, then we would say 'donno exactly when the first love I experienced'.

And one more confusion among people; during olden days people fallen in love could not love another girl or a boy if the first love fails, they call it real love or True Love. Bitterness of past experiences make them to stop thinking more and they are unable to overcome the past. They decide that they cannot survive without the same partner, so great love stories ended in death. Once come out of depressed circumstances, slowly and automatically erases thoughts from mind, volume of the depression decrease. And I have heard first love experiences cannot be erased from mind till death. Years after comparatively depth of hurt can be lesser than earlier.

As far as a human mind is concerned its changing often, due to many reasons two persons may not have the same taste, likes or dislikes. Naturally, human tendency is seeks for many more affairs, likes and dislikes without any regrets. Reasons according to medical and biological theories normal growth of a human hormone develops desires, functions of these particular hormone makes different desires.

The world famous stories of true love, Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, Indian stories like Devadass & Parvathy and so on reflects the story of peculiar love, there are no evidence that these stories were written only for novelty, either it had no proofs or these are based on true stories. But normally story writers emphasis culture, civilization of the country where it was described as happened. Then the reader can travel or live with the characters of the story, it makes the story live.

when think about the deep love, two people can dedicate their life for love, if the love is based upon truth as it is incomparable, in those days female or male had their values to respect each other, trustworthy to each other. Love making was natural and it was not based on their social status, It had no bias like today's love stories, so I think in this aspect there are chances that the 'real love' concept might be based on these love stories.

No author can write any of his stories purely with their own imaginations, basics of any popular or unpopular novels or stories written with a concept of real life, but the proportion varies from author to author, and also the way author convincing readers with their techniques and imaginations. Their the author or his novel popularized with great expectations.

But now-a-days things are different, boy or a girl dominating each one of them; status,money,education and also cast, religion dominating their personal life of any Indian. So the values of the real love disappeared, ego among life partners or youngsters who are fallen in love and relationships, people of contradictions, faces difference of opinions makes least survival together, claiming solutions with lawyers at family courts seeking for family counsellor's guidance.

Today in most of the Indian families children are most sufferers, due to improper guidance they spoil life, addicts of bad habits and violent. On the whole malpractices and rebellious gangsters were increasing dangers in numbers.

What is first love, what is True love. The Love that we got from our parents are the First and the True Love, in return we must love our children and take care of them, Love can Do anything, Love can Change anything in human life. Love is the Life, Love is the God. Love that makes meanings in life, we should realize it in our short life.

LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOU LOVES YOURSELF.

AS IT COME

When I think about life, there I always find a question, people trust that every one's birth is reasonable. If it is, how to find it out, who could answer, to find it out what shall he/she has to do, most of us believe God has created everything, so the answer could be, God only knows for what she or he has been created.

Some of us believe, by nature we born as other creatures of the world. Without creator world and heavenly bodies were created.

Now the question, what for we were created, if we could find out the answer, we could try to achieve the same.

I do not find it difficult to get the answer, because I trust in God, so my question has answered, to achieve, for I was brought into the world, one to experience, not easy, a narrow and hard path to walk on, I had been called for, even my acquaintance ridicule at me, the struggle on my way to Him, no more burdens. Because am not, He the one who holding me on his shoulders.

The narrow and thorny path has been the way to everlasting treasure, someone would be waiting to greet me, and to say "welcome", one who is looking forward, on my way to Him I will be fed, when I cross deserts, He shows green pastures, and still water for my thirst, He knows that I am a wanderer, His compassionate hands are ready to abide me forever.

The one who created, cared, waiting for my arrival, I am walking on and on, to achieve His endless love.