DOMINATE

At the age of six, when I was joined at School I find it was difficult to sit at a place with unknown mates, someone (teacher) was forcing me to write on the slate which she had been writing on the blackboard. Waiting for the lunch breaks I felt a bit relieved from the situation but still even if I was not hungry should eat lunch. Till 4 o’clock it was like hell to pass the time to go back to home. At once I reach home my mother embrace me as she also finds difficult to pass the whole day without my presence. If she has been too strict obviously I would not find the School and the circumstances hated. My parents never allowed me to take leave for simple reasons, except sickness. To face the Teachers and the classmates were very difficult till I completed my School final, I understood that it will be. In those days to complete the School was to pass 11 years, I have learnt many from that duration, not only through studies but also by the environment. All those days could not be erased from memories of everybody, and it is basement of entire life that what we are going to be. School is the first place where we see the world apart from our parents. Each day brings a new lesson which teaches entirely different dimension of life. In which we will find at each completely different matter. Of these unintentionally we were propensity to habits, which might be good or bad.

Here unknowingly an 'inner man' created to every human being, which start to play his role silently. Most of the times he talks with us regarding our present and past matters, which we cannot explicit to anyone. A few would rely upon their school mates whom they think worthy to discuss. Though they discuss with his mate the inner man would always suggest his opinion silently. Sometimes we ignore the 'inner man' to decide or ignore on our own, accept on someone’s advice, if it ends up with good results, we depend the same way on which gives success. The Inner Man who is not certainly talks good, but also suggest to very worst. The inner man induces us to various types of actions in different situations. He becomes dominant than our own, needlessly interfere us. Over time, we ourselves finds it difficult to overcome his domination. It's become a bigger struggle. At times due to misunderstandings can be faced worst consequences. Here we are using our knowledge which were gained from religious, parents, friends, books and relatives. Which derives us from the dilemma to choose the right and the bad. Again the choice comes to our own hand.

Some people would say ‘knowingly’ I did, some people say ‘ I do not want to do but I was induced to do it’. ‘Knowingly’ meant that he knew the result if he do it, in the second statement used the word ‘induced’ gives meaning either he has been chosen by the inner man’s domination or by his parents, friends or the surroundings. Our choice to guided for life has been most important from our School days. And we should know to lead ourselves on the right track, to balance the situations could find no more crisis, perquisite. The man’s mind is like a horse, the trained horses needs Bridle. To ride on a horse without bridle as risky as to kill us. Train the mind, bridle it to avoid risks is in our hand.

THE WORLD REQUIRES

Stories were told to suppress or control our desires of the mind, any story we read in ancient epics which communicates moral values of life. Which is giving importance to follow in real life. Which conducts us from the  Adventurous sin. Recently I saw a show in a television channel, the concept of that show is really worth, the concept for the poor people: to raise their revenue, establish a small business or the things which could not be afforded according to their desire were given through the show on one condition that only if they could answer to few very easy general knowledge questions. It is a very interesting and sensible method I thought.

As I became a follower of a particular program if time permits me, one day I saw a very young couple they have a small baby, her desire to purchase a brand new refrigerator and an automatic washing machine, as she is living in a very small hut, not even two people cannot stay at a time, it seems there was no electricity, there is no place to keep the refrigerator and an automated washing machine. They might sell it for someone to make money or they might use it for their own. Here I saw the excessive desire of things or for money. When they fail to answer a very simple question, she becomes anguish, her husband consoling her, but she was unable to bear the disappointment, if she keeps on nagging, nuisance to her husband, he has to choose the illegal ways to obtain money to meet the requirements. This is what happens in most of the families, majority people’s mentality now-a-days to achieve things which is impossible for them. The basic reason among even young people are bounteous desires of luxurious life. They are ready for any sort of illegal activity to get it.

In south India there is a Sage, his  main  teaching to his students and to his devotees  “DESIRE ON EVERYTHING”, he explains it as his  own “annotation”. As long as the one who following his teachings were fair and honest there would be no more Cons. Everyone’s intentions are not always as good as we expect or think. Particularly, these days are less  people with good intentions are found. For example, if someone can be reach out other’s belongings could be motivated on the basis of the Sadhu's teachings "desire on everything”. I have heard that the desires of  heart lead to  self-destruction, I have seen many kinds of 'distractions' also. Unethical or improperly added properties never give peace of mind. To  achieve things according to the mind's desires, what are the mistakes were helped to accommodate the position will never leave from the memories, those scenes appear again and again to disturb present life, somewhat to relieve from those memories, drinking liquors or some kind of drug addiction required situation become inevitable, forced to that situation. If “At any cost I will achieve” was ensured action to achieve,“The Cost” which had been paid is PEACE OF MIND. Which cannot  be purchased even if ready to give back whatever the “achievements” that have added. Once lost is lost.

I never agree effortlessness, without effort nothing can be achieved, at the same time, we should know which is smarter and reasonable of choosing ‘The Way of Life', everyone has the rights to choose their own life; but before the start have to keep a few principles in mind is necessary, “Determination should not be Allowed to Dissolve our Principles”, “Determinations should be based on Justice, Honesty, Reasonable” this is the World Requires more than Scientists or Scholars or advanced technology etc.,