JOURNALIST WOMAN RAPE

   Mumbai journalist rape news again creates threat freedom of the woman in India. According to news rapists two were arrested, the question is what kind of judgement court is going to give. One out of the four pillars of Democracy is Legislature; if one who take the pledge before the convocation of Law with a conscience and conscientious should not take the accused rapists as their client. Then as a citizen of India we will wait for judgement. If the court does not take this situation of highest importance victims and rapists ratio will rise its significant deterioration in the country. Woman of India's development will considerably reduce.

   Some of the political party's of India throughout the country are making benefit of even a worse agony of the public. I do not understand one thing that these politicians are not yet seasoned, or they never think before they speak?. These kind of statements shows that what kind of politics they stand on. A miserable incident has happened, in that context what needs to be spoken, not even knowing that. Such a leader comes to power what will happen to public; horrible to think. 

   As a woman I will say after gang rape case of Nirbya at Delhi the judgement was declared in favor of rapists is a warning to every woman in this country. A woman must not go alone to unknown places or with persons. The woman has blessed with warning sense, given for utilizing it in the appropriate places to avoid. Bravery is necessary for a woman, but it depends on the circumstances. Most of the rapists are drunkards and layman does not even aware of the law or the advancement of woman. In that case the one who has to be careful is woman and children.

   How long Indian woman has to wait for the safety, rapists are not only in India around the world this kind of tragedy going on. We hope for the Best. 

TRIBUTE TO MY AMMA

                  22 ‎August ‎2013

LOVE; its existence is limited, those TRUE LOVE stories may not be popular. Assurance exchanged by the couple who married newly who will say that both of them in love. A few years later each one of them finds difficult to prolong the relationship. No one wants to compromise even a few things to pursue. There the question arise "How can I compromise?, How can I tolerate?, That is not my problem; How long I can keep silent" and so on. Has the love disappeared? If Love has been given priority in life hesitation will be at zero level. I have experienced The True Love in my life. I can proudly say that AM THE RICHEST. One who has everything except love are considered to be poor among the poor.

The first love in my life was from my mother which was enormous throughout my life. She compromised all her happiness for my sake. It was a very emotional long story, which I remember at every moment of my life. In fact, I would say day by day my love on her increases. Every day without her thought I never go to bed. Such a great woman she was. When she was counting her last days I asked her "Amma [mom] how I am going to live without you?; with whom can I talk so closely?" she said to me with tears and pains "Don't worry God will guide you more than myself". How wonderful days I had spent with all my life with her, Really am fortunate. 

    As she said after her God has become my friend; He is showering His wonderful mercy, abundant love for me keeping myself pampered. His guidance has no words to express. God knows being a poor and only child to my parents needed a lovable and caring parent. From my childhood till my marriage food, cloth and shelter were luxurious things. That was a tremendous story. My only dream was to become graduated, for the education I have struggled a lot to reach at my Bachelors. After marriage completed my Masters, the one who was feeling happier in her life to see me as an educated happily married woman was my AMMA [mom]. 

My father was a man of multi-talents, wise, my philosopher and guide. He prophesied many things in and around my life. He loved God with his whole hearted, most of his life time spent for prayers, and that was his only treasure. Sometimes I asked him that "your lip moves, is that you are talking to yourself?", He replied me politely, conversation with God.Those days my knowledge of prayers was less than the current level. As I know only before every meal and before bed at night. So his reply confused me and I was not able to understand. Later, God educated me at times when I seek Him. 

So my previous love for my mom and dad was first phase, second and the everlasting now am in LOVE with God, He bounds with his enduring mercy and love for me. As my mother said to me God is my Love, He is my guidance. Am not only thankful but also grateful to Him. Today is my mother's 12th anniversary, remembrance of her great soul writing this short tribute message. "Amma [Mom], we will meet again; I Love You". ‎22 ‎August ‎2013

VICTIM OF THE HOAX

someone says marriages are made in heaven, if so divorce are at Hell. Men and woman turns to the age of getting into a relationship; depend on their situation rather than love. In the case if the relationship continued on understanding of each other ends with sexual emotions. Very few of them succeeded to live together till the death. Human nature based on emotional at times rather than love. Human being overtaken by the emotions, which turns relationships into pathetic evaluations. Even if one whose mind says to stay on attitudes which is really perfect, but never allows him to do so. How to control emotions or attitude of one, is the question which is unanswered till he allows himself to reconsider or counsel to an appropriate person. 

Ego is the other mental form to behave like an odd person in society even if they do not want. Love also a kind of emotion for which a human body creates sexual Harmon, stimulates the mind to tempt on woman or man. At the young age all these harmonic functions are greater for reproduction. The natural process of the human body must not be controlled or misused. Sex education is one of the important to the educational system for young children must know the facts of the body. If they are informed at an adolescent age they might not be misguided by the resources which are available on the Internet or from their friend's. Sources must be available for them at School Library, College and Universities. At the adolescent age attraction of girls and boys will be much more than any other age, if a girl or a boy smiles at each other few times they come to the conclusions that both are in love; even grown up men think the same way, in the second case conclusions are more vulgar than the youngsters. Each and every sign of a woman are not mean to be in need of sex; DNA of men designed for eager on sex and its appeal. 

The brain Claims them to think it over and over. And its very normal function which is seductive and unable to control over it. Whereas in the case of the woman or a girl its under control. She could control her own sexuality or love making thoughts. Control over the body and mind is a limitless gift for a woman by the nature. Love which is the only word used by the young boys and girls to determine their own sexual stimulation at various levels at various moments. Why the success of marriage or love failure is an increasing factor in our society because misguidance at one point. 

Olden days the pattern of the marriage in India or in western countries were valued: and the life was stable; people believed that marriage is the divined. And also control over the sexual thoughts are confidential; no one talks about it. Most of the people does not aware of what it is really. We can say that they are innocent than the younger generation. Science has not revealed its entire sources like modern days. Adolescent boys and girls could not see each other at anymore. The real love stories were created by the great authors like Shakespeare in western countries and Anarkali in Bollywood, Devadoss, Ambigapathy at South India. In most of the movies the content not only entertain youngsters also behave worse at women and girls. They are wanting to experiment that what they had seen at the Cinema. Unwanted stuffs triggering the growing children for bad ideas. Parents must be aware of what the child is doing or watching, what kind of talk going on with their friends, else parents or children become victim of the hoax.