LOVE

Sometimes people talk about 'first love', I used to visualize the people whom I loved and the people loved me, but there are so many questions passes around in my mind at the same time, final results would be, exactly when, where and what for love started and ended will be unanswered; all the answers and questions sometime confuses, makes us difficult to find right answers for many questions arises in our thought, then we would say 'donno exactly when the first love I experienced'.

And one more confusion among people; during olden days people fallen in love could not love another girl or a boy if the first love fails, they call it real love or True Love. Bitterness of past experiences make them to stop thinking more and they are unable to overcome the past. They decide that they cannot survive without the same partner, so great love stories ended in death. Once come out of depressed circumstances, slowly and automatically erases thoughts from mind, volume of the depression decrease. And I have heard first love experiences cannot be erased from mind till death. Years after comparatively depth of hurt can be lesser than earlier.

As far as a human mind is concerned its changing often, due to many reasons two persons may not have the same taste, likes or dislikes. Naturally, human tendency is seeks for many more affairs, likes and dislikes without any regrets. Reasons according to medical and biological theories normal growth of a human hormone develops desires, functions of these particular hormone makes different desires.

The world famous stories of true love, Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, Indian stories like Devadass & Parvathy and so on reflects the story of peculiar love, there are no evidence that these stories were written only for novelty, either it had no proofs or these are based on true stories. But normally story writers emphasis culture, civilization of the country where it was described as happened. Then the reader can travel or live with the characters of the story, it makes the story live.

when think about the deep love, two people can dedicate their life for love, if the love is based upon truth as it is incomparable, in those days female or male had their values to respect each other, trustworthy to each other. Love making was natural and it was not based on their social status, It had no bias like today's love stories, so I think in this aspect there are chances that the 'real love' concept might be based on these love stories.

No author can write any of his stories purely with their own imaginations, basics of any popular or unpopular novels or stories written with a concept of real life, but the proportion varies from author to author, and also the way author convincing readers with their techniques and imaginations. Their the author or his novel popularized with great expectations.

But now-a-days things are different, boy or a girl dominating each one of them; status,money,education and also cast, religion dominating their personal life of any Indian. So the values of the real love disappeared, ego among life partners or youngsters who are fallen in love and relationships, people of contradictions, faces difference of opinions makes least survival together, claiming solutions with lawyers at family courts seeking for family counsellor's guidance.

Today in most of the Indian families children are most sufferers, due to improper guidance they spoil life, addicts of bad habits and violent. On the whole malpractices and rebellious gangsters were increasing dangers in numbers.

What is first love, what is True love. The Love that we got from our parents are the First and the True Love, in return we must love our children and take care of them, Love can Do anything, Love can Change anything in human life. Love is the Life, Love is the God. Love that makes meanings in life, we should realize it in our short life.

LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOU LOVES YOURSELF.